"Only change is constant in life." This is so true. Change is something most of us are afraid of and when a change takes place in our lives, we just cannot accept it.
After giving 3 years of my life to BSc IT at nationals where I made the best of friends - B.A.N.G. along with other friends, it was difficult for me to accept a new college and more importantly make new friends.
However, this change was not so bad. I had a great time at I.E.S Management Institute, made a number of good friends. However, as I said before, "only change is constant." My so-called Best Friend who was so important to me chose to end the friendship. It definately hurts to see all this but people are not going to be with you forever and it was high time for me to realize it.
These are small things that happen with everyone in life. Friends fighting for petty reasons is nothing in front of a friend who expired in a road accident. Satwant Kaur Advani, A dear friend who was my first friend I made in BSc IT in Room No. 19 was hit by a car at Hyderabad on 21st Feb 2009. A girl who just turned 21 was about to see and experience life and this horrifying incident took place and ended everything. Life is so unpredictable.
Satwant, we used to go home together in the auto rickshaw, we used to go for a walk at Band Stand or Carter Road, we used to go for movies, we used to go to McDonalds, both of us were the C.R's of the class, not many know but we also decided to date each other for a day. On 31st December, we had gone for a walk and I asked her "Are you going to stay in Mumbai forever?" and she asked "Why are you asking me this question?" and I replied "So that, I can invite you for my wedding." Traditional Day, when I helped her with something and she hugged me and said "Thank you for being there." All those wonderful days we spent together at National College will just be Pleasant Memories now. I regret not being in touch with her after MBA. I regret for all the stupidity we did behind her back and I hope she would forgive us. I'am sure where ever she is, she is in good hands. We all love you and will always miss you :)
Monday, February 23, 2009
Monday, April 7, 2008
BCGK
Yes, "BCGK -Heartbroken Heros" is my new Album. My partner would be Mr.Bhavesh Chhatpar (as usual). BCGK stands for BHAVESH CHHATPAR GAURAV KHETWANI.
Heartbroken?? Nah, both of us love listening to sad songs so we have decided that we are going to make an album
It would include sad songs such as :- 1) Tanhayee - Dil Chahta hai
2) Main Jahan Rahoon - Namaste London
3) Ya Rabba - Salaam-E-Ishq
4) Alvida -Metro
and so on...
The album will be available in all leading music stores from May 5th. Watch this space for more details.
Tuesday, April 1, 2008
Jealousy in Love
" What is jealousy? Why do we get Jealous? One feels jealous because one loves, and one cares.We feel jealous only when our own beloved cheats on us. Somewhere it is written that jealousy is an immature reaction. If jealousy is immature then love is equally so. First stop loving, stop giving any commitment and then you will never face and jealous feelings.
Jealousy is the result of breach of trust. A person who is in intense love will feel intense jealousy and will find it difficult to adjust with his/her life after the breach of trust. We are all human beings and not saints. Saints neither love a person exclusively nor commit themselves to one person. Their love is universal. But ours is not. We may feel compassion for all, but we love only one. When that person cheats on us, we feel jealous and if we are sure of the cheating and if our partner goes away, we feel angry for betrayal of trust. "
I read this article somewhere and found it really amazing. It is very normal to get jealous. I mean even I feel jealous when my friends do better than me in exams but that doesn't mean that I hate my friends, its just that you get this feeling from within that you can be better than your friends. But if you are in love, and you feel jealous, trust me it hurts a lot !
However, I believe that jealousy has its own pros and cons...Pros? Yes, its true.
If you are in a relation where jealousy doesnt get out of proportion, it reminds the couple not to take each other for granted. In small, manageable doses (Yea "doses"), jealousy can be a positive force in a relationship. However, Jealousy can create a lotta problems too. For example, if my girl shares information about her personal life with her male best friend, then its quite natural for a guy to feel jealous. These kinds of reaction can put a huge strain on a relationship.
I have been thinking a lot about jealousy, is jealousy a sign of true love or is it a sign of childishness? Is it wrong to feel jealous in love? Does it mean dat I dont trust?
Please Answer me . .
Jealousy is the result of breach of trust. A person who is in intense love will feel intense jealousy and will find it difficult to adjust with his/her life after the breach of trust. We are all human beings and not saints. Saints neither love a person exclusively nor commit themselves to one person. Their love is universal. But ours is not. We may feel compassion for all, but we love only one. When that person cheats on us, we feel jealous and if we are sure of the cheating and if our partner goes away, we feel angry for betrayal of trust. "
I read this article somewhere and found it really amazing. It is very normal to get jealous. I mean even I feel jealous when my friends do better than me in exams but that doesn't mean that I hate my friends, its just that you get this feeling from within that you can be better than your friends. But if you are in love, and you feel jealous, trust me it hurts a lot !
However, I believe that jealousy has its own pros and cons...Pros? Yes, its true.
If you are in a relation where jealousy doesnt get out of proportion, it reminds the couple not to take each other for granted. In small, manageable doses (Yea "doses"), jealousy can be a positive force in a relationship. However, Jealousy can create a lotta problems too. For example, if my girl shares information about her personal life with her male best friend, then its quite natural for a guy to feel jealous. These kinds of reaction can put a huge strain on a relationship.
I have been thinking a lot about jealousy, is jealousy a sign of true love or is it a sign of childishness? Is it wrong to feel jealous in love? Does it mean dat I dont trust?
Please Answer me . .
Monday, March 31, 2008
REALITY SHOWSSSSSSSSSS !
Now, one must be wondering that why have I mentioned so many S's in my title ! CAN'T help people, there are so many Reality Shows on tv these days that one 'S' is just not enough. Right? Whenever I turn on the television, I see someone dancing, or someone abusing or someone crying, or someone singing as well.
Let me talk about few reality shows which I have seen in recent times. ROADIES 5.0 ! Its the longest reality show on television. So what is Roadies All About? Few 'ATRANGI' people from all over India (mostly from the NORTH) get selected and they travel all over India (NOW INTERNATIONAL TOO) and perform few "tasks". People who win the task say "F**K, I AM SO HAPPY, I WON THE TASK" and people who lose the task say "F**K YOU B****RD, YOU CHEATED". Either ways, people abuse. Awesome SHOW !!! However, could someone please explain me that why do these people bitch about other people only when the camera is on? I was watching Roadies few weeks back, and I saw the episode where 5 guys stripped just to win money. Hello my protesters? Where have you'll dissappeared? Aah Come on, after protesting against the very RACIST LINE ;) in AAJA NACHLE, you guys must protest about such things too? (Trust me my politicians, OOPS! I mean my protesters, I will vote OOPS AGAIN, I will support you)
Aah, how can I forget DANCE SHOWS. As far as I remember, the oldest Dancing show was "Boogie Woogie". But now, we have a glut of DANCE REALITY SHOWS. Be it NACH BALIYE, NACH BALIYE 2, JHALAK DIKH LAAJA, JHALAK DIKH LAAJA 2, ROCK-N-ROLL FAMILY, or YEH HAI JALWA, what are these reality shows trying to show us? Dance? IN YOUR DREAMS ! These shows are worst than Kekta Kapoor Saas-Bahut sagas. I still can't forget Ms.Shweta Tiwari when she was voted out from Nach Baliye, boy she was SCARY !
Let me talk about MISS.PRACHI DESAI, She was voted out from the show, and within 2 weeks she was back on the show, Nah not only that, SHE WON THE SHOW TOO. Sab Kekta Kapoor ki Meharbani ! JAI HO KEKTA KI ! One girl who yelled from the Roof-Top that these Reality Shows are FAKE, the voting system is faulty. Yes, she is our very own RAKHI SAWANT. No one believed her, why would anyone believe a girl who speaks from her Heart? Right?
Its better if we don't talk about Singing Reality Shows. SA RE GA MA , SA RE GA MA PA, VOICE OF INDIA, MISSION USTAAD...AAH My blood pressure rises when I see these shows. The Judges are so damn cool. I was watching, Sa Re Ga Ma Pa, and our very own SHANTI (DEEPIKA PADUKONE) was the judge. While the contestant was singing the song, deepika shut her eyes and she was fully concentrating on the song. Really Deepika? Were u really concentrating or were you thinking about Dhoni? or Yuvraj Singh? or Akshay Kumar? or your ex-boyfriend? nahhh..I am sure u were thinking about RANBIR KAPOOR'S Butt ! And when the song got over, Deepika said "Your SUR were perfect." Must say u are very talented babe, you can act well, you can dance well, you can FLIRT well, or rather very well and now you know a lot about singing too. AWESOME !!! Thank God, I have a BAD VOICE, or else my mum would send me to one of these sick reality shows too !
Big Boss! Aah This one was my favourite, I really loved it only because of RAKHI SAWANT. Even if she was acting throughtout the show, I just don't care. I Absolutely LOVED HER in the show. Hats off to u RAKHI ! MAY JEEEJUS ALWAYS BE WITH YOU! GANPATI BAPA MORIYA !
Let me talk about few reality shows which I have seen in recent times. ROADIES 5.0 ! Its the longest reality show on television. So what is Roadies All About? Few 'ATRANGI' people from all over India (mostly from the NORTH) get selected and they travel all over India (NOW INTERNATIONAL TOO) and perform few "tasks". People who win the task say "F**K, I AM SO HAPPY, I WON THE TASK" and people who lose the task say "F**K YOU B****RD, YOU CHEATED". Either ways, people abuse. Awesome SHOW !!! However, could someone please explain me that why do these people bitch about other people only when the camera is on? I was watching Roadies few weeks back, and I saw the episode where 5 guys stripped just to win money. Hello my protesters? Where have you'll dissappeared? Aah Come on, after protesting against the very RACIST LINE ;) in AAJA NACHLE, you guys must protest about such things too? (Trust me my politicians, OOPS! I mean my protesters, I will vote OOPS AGAIN, I will support you)
Aah, how can I forget DANCE SHOWS. As far as I remember, the oldest Dancing show was "Boogie Woogie". But now, we have a glut of DANCE REALITY SHOWS. Be it NACH BALIYE, NACH BALIYE 2, JHALAK DIKH LAAJA, JHALAK DIKH LAAJA 2, ROCK-N-ROLL FAMILY, or YEH HAI JALWA, what are these reality shows trying to show us? Dance? IN YOUR DREAMS ! These shows are worst than Kekta Kapoor Saas-Bahut sagas. I still can't forget Ms.Shweta Tiwari when she was voted out from Nach Baliye, boy she was SCARY !
Let me talk about MISS.PRACHI DESAI, She was voted out from the show, and within 2 weeks she was back on the show, Nah not only that, SHE WON THE SHOW TOO. Sab Kekta Kapoor ki Meharbani ! JAI HO KEKTA KI ! One girl who yelled from the Roof-Top that these Reality Shows are FAKE, the voting system is faulty. Yes, she is our very own RAKHI SAWANT. No one believed her, why would anyone believe a girl who speaks from her Heart? Right?
Its better if we don't talk about Singing Reality Shows. SA RE GA MA , SA RE GA MA PA, VOICE OF INDIA, MISSION USTAAD...AAH My blood pressure rises when I see these shows. The Judges are so damn cool. I was watching, Sa Re Ga Ma Pa, and our very own SHANTI (DEEPIKA PADUKONE) was the judge. While the contestant was singing the song, deepika shut her eyes and she was fully concentrating on the song. Really Deepika? Were u really concentrating or were you thinking about Dhoni? or Yuvraj Singh? or Akshay Kumar? or your ex-boyfriend? nahhh..I am sure u were thinking about RANBIR KAPOOR'S Butt ! And when the song got over, Deepika said "Your SUR were perfect." Must say u are very talented babe, you can act well, you can dance well, you can FLIRT well, or rather very well and now you know a lot about singing too. AWESOME !!! Thank God, I have a BAD VOICE, or else my mum would send me to one of these sick reality shows too !
Big Boss! Aah This one was my favourite, I really loved it only because of RAKHI SAWANT. Even if she was acting throughtout the show, I just don't care. I Absolutely LOVED HER in the show. Hats off to u RAKHI ! MAY JEEEJUS ALWAYS BE WITH YOU! GANPATI BAPA MORIYA !
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