" What is jealousy? Why do we get Jealous? One feels jealous because one loves, and one cares.We feel jealous only when our own beloved cheats on us. Somewhere it is written that jealousy is an immature reaction. If jealousy is immature then love is equally so. First stop loving, stop giving any commitment and then you will never face and jealous feelings.
Jealousy is the result of breach of trust. A person who is in intense love will feel intense jealousy and will find it difficult to adjust with his/her life after the breach of trust. We are all human beings and not saints. Saints neither love a person exclusively nor commit themselves to one person. Their love is universal. But ours is not. We may feel compassion for all, but we love only one. When that person cheats on us, we feel jealous and if we are sure of the cheating and if our partner goes away, we feel angry for betrayal of trust. "
I read this article somewhere and found it really amazing. It is very normal to get jealous. I mean even I feel jealous when my friends do better than me in exams but that doesn't mean that I hate my friends, its just that you get this feeling from within that you can be better than your friends. But if you are in love, and you feel jealous, trust me it hurts a lot !
However, I believe that jealousy has its own pros and cons...Pros? Yes, its true.
If you are in a relation where jealousy doesnt get out of proportion, it reminds the couple not to take each other for granted. In small, manageable doses (Yea "doses"), jealousy can be a positive force in a relationship. However, Jealousy can create a lotta problems too. For example, if my girl shares information about her personal life with her male best friend, then its quite natural for a guy to feel jealous. These kinds of reaction can put a huge strain on a relationship.
I have been thinking a lot about jealousy, is jealousy a sign of true love or is it a sign of childishness? Is it wrong to feel jealous in love? Does it mean dat I dont trust?
Please Answer me . .
